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	<title>Comments on: Soon, though, Julia realises that she&#8217;s more free as a slave than she ever was as a sheltered Roman virgin</title>
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		<title>By: The Inaugural Down Under Feminists Carnival at Hoyden About Town</title>
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		<dc:creator>The Inaugural Down Under Feminists Carnival at Hoyden About Town</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 17:02:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Blogger on the Cast Iron Balcony points out the flaws in evolutionary psychology justifications for rape fiction in &#8220;Soon, though, Julia realises that she&#8217;s more free as a slave than she ever was as a sheltered Roman virgin&#8221;. Cupidsbow has also been having fiction troubles, foiled in her attempt to find non-misogynist novels at a bookshop: &#8220;WTF, I&#8217;d rather read slash forever!&#8221;: Am I speaking some strange and exotic language? When I say, &#8220;No misogyny,&#8221; does it come out as, &#8220;Blah blah blah Fido blah blah sex&#8221;?&#8221; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Blogger on the Cast Iron Balcony points out the flaws in evolutionary psychology justifications for rape fiction in &#8220;Soon, though, Julia realises that she&#8217;s more free as a slave than she ever was as a sheltered Roman virgin&#8221;. Cupidsbow has also been having fiction troubles, foiled in her attempt to find non-misogynist novels at a bookshop: &#8220;WTF, I&#8217;d rather read slash forever!&#8221;: Am I speaking some strange and exotic language? When I say, &#8220;No misogyny,&#8221; does it come out as, &#8220;Blah blah blah Fido blah blah sex&#8221;?&#8221; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Helen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Helen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 11:53:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No, I think you&#039;re onto a good little earner there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, I think you&#8217;re onto a good little earner there.</p>
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		<title>By: Ariel</title>
		<link>http://castironbalcony.media2.org/2008/05/24/soon-though-julia-realises-that-shes-more-free-as-a-slave-than-she-ever-was-as-a-sheltered-roman-virgin/comment-page-1/#comment-5228</link>
		<dc:creator>Ariel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 11:16:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hee hee. It is an oxymoron but a good one! I like the idea of a choose-your-own adventure romance. You know, you either make choices that lead to  the sensible one you should be in love with or the charming Heathcliff type character. Oops, I&#039;ve given it too much thought already ...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hee hee. It is an oxymoron but a good one! I like the idea of a choose-your-own adventure romance. You know, you either make choices that lead to  the sensible one you should be in love with or the charming Heathcliff type character. Oops, I&#8217;ve given it too much thought already &#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Helen</title>
		<link>http://castironbalcony.media2.org/2008/05/24/soon-though-julia-realises-that-shes-more-free-as-a-slave-than-she-ever-was-as-a-sheltered-roman-virgin/comment-page-1/#comment-5224</link>
		<dc:creator>Helen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 20:02:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laura and Ariel, I&#039;m sure you could write completely kick-ass M&amp;B. (If that&#039;s not an oxymoron). Nice little earner. Laura could do the period ones.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laura and Ariel, I&#8217;m sure you could write completely kick-ass M&amp;B. (If that&#8217;s not an oxymoron). Nice little earner. Laura could do the period ones.</p>
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		<title>By: Ariel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ariel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 12:49:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m afraid I found that book pretty woolly all round - started it but couldn&#039;t finish it. It&#039;s not that she didn&#039;t have some good points (over-consumption being one) but that it seemed to be argued in such a round-in-circles, meandering-to-the point, kind of fashion.

But ye-ees, these excerpts are dodgy for another reason. 

Head-scratcher indeed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m afraid I found that book pretty woolly all round &#8211; started it but couldn&#8217;t finish it. It&#8217;s not that she didn&#8217;t have some good points (over-consumption being one) but that it seemed to be argued in such a round-in-circles, meandering-to-the point, kind of fashion.</p>
<p>But ye-ees, these excerpts are dodgy for another reason. </p>
<p>Head-scratcher indeed.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 03:23:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How did you know what I&#039;m wearing today??  Now &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt; is truly eerie.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How did you know what I&#8217;m wearing today??  Now <i>that</i> is truly eerie.</p>
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		<title>By: Helen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Helen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 12:26:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes. My mum knows someone who writes the things. Which is a hoot, since my mum tends to befriend lovely Anglican churchy ladies who wear navy blue skirts, floral shirts with a round collar, and sensible sandals.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes. My mum knows someone who writes the things. Which is a hoot, since my mum tends to befriend lovely Anglican churchy ladies who wear navy blue skirts, floral shirts with a round collar, and sensible sandals.</p>
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		<title>By: JM</title>
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		<dc:creator>JM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 11:24:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;in every book a scene where the heroine is ‘broken in’, both emotionally and physically, by the hero”.&quot;

Which is not surprising.  M&amp;B are written to a formula.   When you sign up to be an M&amp;B author they send you a little pack which includes instructions on the formula, covering plot structure, essential scenes and when they should appear, level of erotic content etc.      That scene is *mandated* by the publisher.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;in every book a scene where the heroine is ‘broken in’, both emotionally and physically, by the hero”.&#8221;</p>
<p>Which is not surprising.  M&amp;B are written to a formula.   When you sign up to be an M&amp;B author they send you a little pack which includes instructions on the formula, covering plot structure, essential scenes and when they should appear, level of erotic content etc.      That scene is *mandated* by the publisher.</p>
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		<title>By: Helen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Helen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 12:32:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree in principle with her other articles about over-consumption, although I think other peoples&#039; criticisms that she&#039;s a bit high handed about it are justified. But it is a hard choice we, as a society, have to make.

&lt;i&gt;Another comment: All of us have a part that is drawn to strong leadership. It’s a very dirty secret, especially since the events of the 1850’s to 1950’s. For women it is sexualised - hence M&amp;B. For men, it’s just a secret. &lt;/i&gt;

That&#039;s a very perceptive comment. The male variant would be the alpha male&#039;s vassal, or something, as opposed to his vessel. Ahem.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree in principle with her other articles about over-consumption, although I think other peoples&#8217; criticisms that she&#8217;s a bit high handed about it are justified. But it is a hard choice we, as a society, have to make.</p>
<p><i>Another comment: All of us have a part that is drawn to strong leadership. It’s a very dirty secret, especially since the events of the 1850’s to 1950’s. For women it is sexualised &#8211; hence M&amp;B. For men, it’s just a secret. </i></p>
<p>That&#8217;s a very perceptive comment. The male variant would be the alpha male&#8217;s vassal, or something, as opposed to his vessel. Ahem.</p>
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		<title>By: Laura</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 12:15:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a lot of time for Elizabeth Farrelly&#039;s work in general so I&#039;ll just say that if I ever have the opportunity to meet her I will be happy to explain exactly what the words &quot;rape fantasy&quot; do to my head.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a lot of time for Elizabeth Farrelly&#8217;s work in general so I&#8217;ll just say that if I ever have the opportunity to meet her I will be happy to explain exactly what the words &#8220;rape fantasy&#8221; do to my head.</p>
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